funny thoughts on marriage theory back in 2005

Marriage Happiness Determinator Theory 1/17/2005

I cannot promise this determinator will guarantee you have a happier marriage life, but certain diagnostic and suggestive for preparing, and improving the chances for happier marriage.

(ATTENTION: just theory at this level! Please do take your own RISK in using this calculation)


Background: in the pilgrim's road, one (green ball) can be found in seveal possible positions - from barely a child in Christ (the bottom of the chart), to a grownup in Christ (the top) enjoying the blessings of heavenly places. Yet the process is against gravity, but through the propellant of faith, our ways are upward.

Preparations:
1. critial period - before critcal period, as babies in Christ, though the new life is growing, the old man is so big, dragging us down at every possible chance (region I), where we can call this region, dark struggles. After critical period, more experienced in the following of the Holy Spirit rather than submitting to the flesh, we reach region II, where there will be more victories, peace, joys and fruits of the Holy Spirit.
Critial period is a theoretical point where life can go either ways.

2. marriage relationship - not drawn in the graph, to represent marriage between a brother and a sister, we can just put their life's road map parallel to each other, and draw the love line. (sorry didn't consider marriage with non-believers, there will be at least one side to fall off the page)



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Conclusions:

In one Spirit: Bones of my bone, flesh of my flesh type: is both are passed the critical period.


The worst chance is both are under the critical period (but still hopeful)